Hi, mummys! But to love a child DESPITE feeling downright unloved back is extraordinary, seriously. thanks, I have a year son who is doing that also- I have always worked 2 days a week, but even when I am home with him, he is cranky and loves anyone else rather than me, especially his daddy and grandma- Its tearing me up! She is almost 10 months old. What the hell do you expect when you abandon your baby? Up till this point she has always been a happy child, always smiling and loved everyone. Lots of quiet, cuddly games with your little one on your lap. Her father works and Im always with her and Its just me. I spent a lot of time crying and have found it hard, but I have loved my son and spent 7 months with him looking after him playing with him feeding him etc. Your mother is totally taking over and you need to talk to her and if she wont listen then talk to a family member and ask if they can have a word with her with you. I do everything to. His mother lets him do what he wants when he wants while Im at work, so I have no say so in the fact. But it can take some time to start enjoying the ride ;-) The rational part of me says that this makes sense because he is with daddy more than me at the moment. What i am trying to say is dont u think that his granddad is trying his god damn hardest to take my farther figure away & take my bond away. lately, i feel so depressed and down, because my boys seem to prefer they nannies over me. I wrote on this post several months ago, when my son was 9 months old. i am a working mom. But I dont get a look in. In my opinion its not a healthy life for her or I. Adjustment takes time. Skin contact is great for bonding. This way, your daughter will get much more time close to you. Instead allow yourself to really enjoy your time with your daughter. I felt like a true bond wasnt there. I have not seen the same reaction for me. Finances will play a huge factor on whether you decide to go back to work from maternity leave. This is painful, really painful. Which makes me feel guilty that he feels guilty. These little fellows are learning that they are separate persons from mom, which they didnt know before and they find it very scary. It is heart-breaking, what can I do? My Mom is the one that takes care of most things around the house while I am working. Im Paula and you can read about this website and how it all started here. Of these numbers, working moms are taking the brunt of the burden. There are a few things I would like to say to you. We share all parenting tasks equally, so it isnt as if he spends more time with her, though he was with her for a few months before he went to daycare (3-6 months). Try to see the bonding as a process and give it time. Sep. 5, 2016. I know that nobody is going to want to hear this but your relationship with your child might never be the same if you just ignore it. I would lay down my life for my son without hesitation. So, yes, absolutely discuss how you can help each other more. especially when im there , but when im not around they seem to get along very well. she cries alot wen i pick her back from wrk . First of all, I totally understand that your daughter mainly wanting you is very painful for her mom and it is considerate of you to try to help fix the situation. Im a stay at home mom so Im with her everyday. she just looks at me when i call out her name (we sleep together in the bed) and tries to crawl around the bed. If it is fairly new maximum 1 year or so what is going on is actually a completely natural development stage in your daughters life. 2.) I am so confused and sad. If must be terribly hard to be away so much from your family and then come home and not feel welcome. i dun get to spent time with her during weekdays..my husband dun understand me wat i am going through . there were times that she slept with my caretaker before i got home to take her to our room could it be this? How can you respond when he's overly attached to one parent? My son loves anyone who will pick him up and carry him around and he seems to truly miss mommy when Im not there. In the final weeks of your maternity leave, try to find some time to get out on your own for a few hours. As soon as she sees me she crys my mamma and whines and doesnt want him to come near her or even talk to her. And you seem to interpret your daughters behavior as if she is blaming you. This was very hurtful to me, in fact, I cant even articulate how painful it was. Otherwise, you will reinforce her wishes to put distance between the two of you and her wish to go to the other person, where does not experience any bad emotions. Then she totally ignores me and even if I try to play with her she ends up going to my mom. well, its not. I just adopted a 22-month-old girl, I have had her a week and a half. My MIL sees him once a week. I know he is only 9 months but shouldnt 9 month old babies already recognise their mothers? I am so happy that my two main men have such a great relationship, but I want to share in it too! A new baby has arrived, and mom is busy being a mom! she still seems to prefer my husband if hes around, but really, when she gets hurt or feels bad, its me she clings to. However, before it got better I came to a sort of terms with it more or less, though I had bouts of severe depression about it from time to time. my love for her isnt based on her feelings for meeven though reciprocation would be nice. If we know why this is happening maybe we can change it! But it seems she does. Doesnt really explain the fact hes always preferred her since he was born. it felt so good reading all the posts and knowing that out there, there were so many mums who felt the same as I did. It started off with biting and scratching and now she is hitting me. Paula, please give me some advice! Give your baby extra cuddles, touches, and comfort. Why does she prefer her father when he can go a whole week without ever seeing her? So chin up, head down. She seems to want her father more and will only laugh at me. Fertility benefits increase loyalty, productivity, and fulfillment. I work full time and my one-year-old goes to daycare 3 days per week and stays at home with her dad 2 days per week. Im very hurt and try not let it get to me but its hard. This always triggers a post traumatic stress response in me and takes me back that awful dark place it sounds like you are in. Paula, Hang in there! I often feel that I could leave any day, never to return and my daughter would never notice. But he just doesnt seem to need me. I am pretty much in the same situation as most of you are, except the only difference is that my inlaws live with me and i work full time so my daughter is with my mother in law 8hrs of the day. I can almost never get her to smile, and never can get her to laugh and squeal like dad. Let's go for a stroll! Please help! Your baby will not feel abandoned by you when you return to work. Getting the Right Child Care. He is the best dad Ive ever seen (aside from my father) and always had his daughter for a few days a week straight since she was born. In the world of occupational therapy, you often hear about the sensory and emotional needs of older kids who are struggling with sensory processing. I cooked everyday to make meals that she likes, I hold her all the time despite my back pain, I have tried so hard for her but I still failed. Running away like that is completely unacceptable. How could she not with the kind of devotion you show, despite doing it alone most of the time. But early nappers are often cranky during the hour that precedes bedtime the very hour that you arrive home from work. Im pretty much the disciplinarian.. could that be the reason? Ever. I have watched them interact from a distance and she smiles, dances, and plays with him. Find reliable childcare Getting childcare is one of the toughest aspects of going back to work. My partner has always spoilt her by carrying her around on his hip what seems like constantly, so when he comes in from work she is happy and smiley and wants him to cuddle her and pick her up and she wont even look my way! People do crazy things in separations. but around the age of 8 or 9 months she just would prefer other peopleshe would go with anyoneI was hurt and devastated. The wrong nipple was used and baby has become a little lazy. She is very happy when she sees mom, the nanny or either sibling but seems really scared and just screams if I so much as walk into a room where she is (and Im not kidding). It took effort from all of us to get to where we are now, but forgiving each other and moving on as responsible adults to give our boy a good life, is one of the best things Ive done in my life.). what can i do to make it better? Hi I used to have a very tight relationship with my parents. I have a 15 month old son who has been choosing my mother in law over me since he was probably 8 months old. And I really hope that this is just a phase that she is going through. You may be feeling a range of emotions about being away from your baby, all while getting used to a new daily routine that might involve busier mornings, daycare drop . it is breaking my heart. Sometimes she does it to my partner but seems only to attack me more. He fights me on everything. This will help you to feel connected with your baby. So the estrangement between the two of you became mutual. Thanks for everyones honesty as a weight has been lifted off my shoulders and Im going to try really hard not to take it personally from today on! after wrk wen she sees me she clings on her granny . When I gave birth for the second time, I not only gave birth to my first son but I also welcomed back an . i feeed her ok but after a feed she now just turns over away from me. Babies and moms dont automatically bond; just like anyone else they need to spend time together. So youve done great job. You may express breast milk so that others can feed your baby. going to bed, having her diaper changed, eating (weve had problems with her wanting to eatanother issue entirely), etc.). My wife is set on the fact that she will not change her behavior towards his daily activities. why does he do this?? I dont know what to do, I have to work to support her, and I want that bond. I do the same, care, dress, cook, feed, bottle. There are a few things you should have on your list during the discussion: To all that have posted their thoughts in regards to what I felt was complete rejection. Yeah, as you can see, it is common! I have read all of the posts and it is kind of a double edge sword to say that I am glad that other people are or have gone through the same things that I am going through. So am just going to take every day as it comes I like the advice about spending quality time 5/10/15 min with my boy. My Baby Doesnt Want Me and Im The Mom!? I want my baby to love me as much as I love her, but I understand I cant force that. In all honestly, she did take a bottle eventually. I mean, she barely gets to see you and she is used to you maybe so she doesnt really know what else to do. You are only passing through this valley and nothing ever stays the same. For quite some time now (actually since my daughter was about 3 months old) Ive had this very same concern that my daughter does not love me. It may not feel like it right this moment but things will get better. It will pass. My daughter is fine when she is with me, we have fun and adventures together. Use this time to get down on the floor and play with her, take a bath together, read her a story, curl up in bed and tell her a bed story or sing to her or do whatever she loves doing. In fact she would scream and cry I will always take her out of her room and try to pacify her. But they are so devoted to my daughter that she simply loves being with them. Create a soothing atmosphere 3. You can read more about baby development at different months here. Take care of yourself during this time. However, my daughter seems to want nothing to do with me. i feel that i been such a great mommy for him soo loving and careing his my everything but he started acting weird like a week ago it seems that he prefers his daddy more than me he works full time. Then, regardless of if she wants to go to dad, grandma or the neighbour later on, you can hopefully rest in the fact that the two of you have had a fun, loving day together. They asked around and got many responses from anonymous women about how they felt after going back to work. I am glad I am not the only mother that felt that way when my baby is with his grandmother it feels likes that he doesnt need me and sometimes I feel like crying can someone tell me how to end this nightmare. she sees her dad may be once or twice a months. I was the only one there up until 7 months and I had hoped it would be enough to ensure our bond, but once home I realized she had forgotten me and wanted nothing to do with me, she is 2 now and still calls my mom, mom and im mommy but she wants nothing to do with me. Place baby on mom's tummy, in the water. Been that way for the past year now. Shes the most amazing thing in the world. I just persevered like you, and it really did get better. He cant even get close to here with a crying. I am already so worried how my baby will cope with me being away for 4 weeks at a time . No phone, no talking to your wife, no planning of the next day at work. Whereas, with her, he SCREAMS. I feel rejected by my man, I have asked many times why? In fact its more mummy than daddy, and my husband is a little bit jealous of this. I dont work and both me and her dad at home with her. Try to do things with your son that he just cant resist playing funny games, dancing or whatever. He gets really upset when Daddy leaves the room. Acknowledge your feelings without judgment, and then cry, laugh, journal or call a friend. please help im worried that she might endup hating him. Play games together with both her and her if needed. I am a stay at home mom, I give her stimulation when she wants it by giving her tummy time or playtime with me or her bouncy. By Alice Gibbs On 6/23/22 at 12:17 PM EDT. when were alone its great but as soon as he sees her he acts like thats his mom. It did not used to be this way she used to be very attached to me. I do everything to make her happy and when she is alone with me she is happy but the moment she sees her grandparents or father she forgets me and rejects me. Let's look at why a baby rejects mom after going back to work, and some helpful tips on what to do about it! You are great mother, try to relax and just love your little independent son. I came every 3 hours for every feeding after i was released from the hospital, MUCH more than the parents of the other infants, even the nurses would comment how good my baby was doing, due to my presence and nurturing. Hi Im a step father an I have a little boy who is 2 now an I been in his life since he was three months old. She wants me over anybody except when they are around. "Be gentle with yourself, moms! We dont know what happened while she was in the other state but I think she needs to have that bond with her mother. Right now, all she really needs is love, skin contact and food. But the bond has never come (she is 5 now) I find it hard to love her, probs have more to do with me because I got pregnant again and sort of gave up on her im sorry to say, when my son was born he loved me the best and always wanted me, and she rejected me over and over. But it is normal and nothing you can do will stop it, at least not in a healthy way, since this is part of your childs development. Our job is then to not take it personally, not reinforce it by showing strong emotions, but simply allow our children to for some reason need one parent more than the other from time to time, It is painful, but it is normal development. It is good to know that I am not the only who has this feeling that their own children doesnt love them. You are obviously there for your son. Lessons to Learn From the Above Quote. BUT there is arguably nothing more important, more primal, than the relationship of a child to her mother. If you are even in the vicinity of your daughter when the nanny is there, she will scream for you and you alone. Just being honest with you. Well, they dont know each other yet! I am really concerned with my family in the way how my daughter prefers only me when I am around. Hi, Now, today is my sons 2nd birthday and Im delighted beyond words that my son is fully bonded with me and I truly feel like a real mother. I play with, love and nurture my 17 month old boy but he doesnt seem to care about me. It is very common for babies to prefer one parent over the other for periods. This could change any day. At around 7-10 months many babies go through stages of separation anxiety and stranger anxiety, meaning that they are terrified to be left alone and/or meet strangers. she cries for grand mother . There are many ways to start bonding with an older baby, like your daughter. With more time spent doing other things (or doing nothing), you are more likely to be able to stay calm, be patient and so one when she is putting up a fight. When I first read about it, I thought it sounded crazy just 15 minutes! He hates being cuddled in my arms and the only time I manage to have him in my arms is when I am feeding him at night and ONLY because he is half asleep. That is an excellent way to allow the two of you to bond. It is quite common to hear new moms worrying about that the love at first sight that they expected when meeting their child for the first time didnt happen. This phenomenon of opting out is actually not widespread. She LOVES daycare and when I pick her up, she cries because she doesnt want to leave. To start, focus on playing and engaging with him in a fun, even nonsensical way. Our song hs never stoppd being sung even my hsband ws around. What scares me the most is that I dont want her to start having tantrums when she cant get what she wants. My daughter prefers my mother, as she looks after her while Im at college. Pace yourself, with paced feeding. I think she knows that her father always comes back when Im around. At first I thought I was imagining it, but after doing a few experiments I had to admit that he really didnt want to be around me. Children are not there to build our self-esteem, they cant and often wont, especially if we expect them to act in a certain way, or to be thankful or loving, because we treat them well. she enjoys talking to him on a phone. I hope its just a phase. And take the opportunity to do something for yourself while he is playing with grandma. Do I spend too much time with her? I just wanted to tell the parents here that this has nothing to do with your work or parenting style. If she can crawl, chasing each other might be fun. I have a 7 month daugher that doesnt seen to want me. My 5 year old son rejects me. Im so glad I found this post! I would really urge you to sit back and think hard on what limits are absolutely necessary for you to set and what you can let go of right now. In ramping up to retuning to work after a parental leave . Sometime when I am feeding him on the weekends (breakfast typically), my son wants to get out of the high chair and go to dad. Please help me!! Hi all. I've tried Philips avent, pigeon and now using hegen. Maybe it is time for both you and her to have a break. I am not a horrible mother, in fact I am a stay at home mother. Please, ask for help. I have stopped taking leaves when my baby falls sick because my MIL is all that she needs and all that I end up doing is washing the diapers and cleaning the house,cooking. Please help if you have passed this phase. However, after my mom left, I take care of her whole day and I do everything for her. Try and make him happy. Im starting to become resentful of my husband (who is not taking me seriously at all) and even worse my son xx. Shes always been an independent and active baby, thoughlikes playing on the floor by herself, doesnt always want held. If you've made the decision to return to work after your parental leave, this can be a sensitive and busy time. And since you have been at home with him, youre not very exciting. Thank you and keep your heads up!! Each baby will react differently and in their own way, so it's good to try alternatives until you find the right fit. Please hang in there mommies and daddies. Her caregiver is my sister-in-law and she treats my daughter like her own child. Ive spent a fortune on psychotherapy and self- help groups, and I still suffer. Quick message to Laura- I?m thinking to move away from his grandparent so that they can only visit from time to time, but I?m worried it will affect him. I was already reluctant to leave my son and I cried 30 minutes down the road and every night before I fell asleep missing him. Toddler Milestones. knowing or hoping that there is an end in sight gives me great joy. Assess your breastfeeding status If your baby is just a few weeks old and you must return to work, you may feel breastfeeding is not yet well established. He is adorable such an angel baby, doesnt cry unless hungry, sleeps all night from 3 months, ready with a smile. Being parent to a toddler gives us fantastic opportunities to develop our creativity! I hate the feeling of being rejected by my only child to the point where I dont even want her. Third, it gives you a possibility to do something else than taking care of your daughter. :**(, Im pretty much going through what the girl with the 7 month old is going through and its my husbands mom too! He is now almost 4 and cries every time his dad leaves and tells me he doesnt want me. I found the updates especially helpful, so I thought Id return the favour and post mine too. I try to fix this by not responding to the kid and shouting at her and show her that I am bad. Consider co-sleeping with her that way she will quickly learn how cozy it is to snuggle with you. Ive experienced this rejection since she is about 3 months old, but it is now that she expresses herself that it is really affecting me and I just dont know how to cope with it anymore. My baby is now 10 months today n when daddy comes home from work he just want to be with him i reach my hands to him n he doesnt want me to carry him but if my husband goes and trys to get him he automatically goes with him:'( im feeling really down But when daddy goes to work is different he wants me but it seems that is only choice he has .. Say he only listens to his dad and not me, not sure what to do , he is 7. we spend so much time with our babies, i think its natural for them to pick up on our vibe. she would change his clothes without asking me and constantly hold him all day, the past few months all he wants is her he reaches out whenever he sees her or will start crying if i dont give him 2 her. she is three now. Love, Peace and Joy to you all with lots of Blessings!!!! Personally, I think reading books about child development and how to help your child in life can be very rewarding both to help one as a parent with becoming more confident and also to find ways to be able to discuss how to raise a child without it becoming angry or sensitive. And I was the one at home. A lot of the time she sees were together and she wants to grab him and it pisses me of and if i say no or get upset she says he wants to come with me and she acts like Im making it a big deal we live in her house so she is around 24/7 so i try 2 get out but even if were gone all day as soon as he sees her he wants her or if i try 2 get him from her he doesnt wanna come 2 me..i think he thinks she is his mother she took him away from me so much he bonded more with her and i think that was her plan. Disguise the bottle. Ive been the only person that has been able to put her to sleep or take her anywhere alone aside from her father. I am a stay at home mom with an almost one year old baby girl. This is NOT just a phase. This is my second son who is 8months and I feel me and him bonded great till a month ago and my husbands work schedule changed he is home all day I cant even get a second without him around and when he leaves the room our son fusses and tries to getaway from me I took him in another room to get some time with him he jus screamed and finally ate and went to bed I am very scheduled till few weeks ago, my husband is very not. By the time all my training was done may daughter was 14 months old and had been with my mother the entire time. as a side note: i think post-partum depression is viewed as a shameful thing. All of a sudden our 9 month old son seems to prefer his daddy over me. It hurts to see my mother be the preferred one when I try just has hard to be noticed! It broke my heart. why does my 17 month old ignore me?? Tips for Going Back to Work After Baby and Easing into a Routine. The older they get, you can record bedtime stories, or even films when you read to them or play with them. Can I give you a challenge? Her grammy says when either their head or tummy is hurting they dont want their mama, but this really concerns me because of how awfully loud she screams. Weekends too. Try to not show any hurt feelings if she goes to her grandma; she obviously isnt doing it to hurt you and may become quite confused if she can sense your irritation when it happens. She has now outgrown the reflux but has become a very fussy feeder.Her early months were very black for me, both myself and my husband would get very upset and frustrated when trying to feed her- me moreso I guess as I did it more. I think I made a huge mistake leaving her for 4 months So worried he is forgeting about me. If possible, try to be at home alone with your daughter too. 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