Or he "ghosts" and just disappears. Does he seem intensely interested in you and your plansalmost coming off as a bit of a stalkerbut only to go off the grid completely before once again coming onto you as strongly as before? On that note we weren't even a couple so I have no idea why he has taken it to heart or what's going on. Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) Sagittarians are the Zodiac's wanderers. i know i;m not his priority. He's Angry If a Scorpio man acts like he doesn't care, he could be angry. He was super into me, to the point where he was almost stalking me (exactly what u mentioned above) although i really didn't mind. Scorpio Detests Lying If you lie to your Scorpio lover, he will know it. Love him anyway. Then you can slowly start to open up and show your more sensitive side. I've recently broken up with a Scorpion man. Don't be pushy give him his space it's very important and if there is anything bothering just talk about it gently we listen probably because we understand ourselves better.some scorpios are terrified about relationships mainly because Scorpio always are in control of their emotions. 2. They rarely pretend and are very bad at telling lies (and hate when others do so). Keep your individuality and don't be needy or whiny. He will make an effort to spend time with you. Source: Favim. 4 Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces): Very In Touch With Their Emotions, It Will Be Obvious When He's Not Interested. He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. But that is okay with me because it gives me time to be alone and a chance to actually miss him. When they get into something, they really go for it. This might be caused by problems early on in their lives that have made them insecure about being committed to someone who might not reciprocate. This is the only way to defend himself or apologize. I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. We just dating, taking it slow. Then when they already knew it's sign of love, they trick their mind assuming the object isn't feel the same, again, to avoid disappointment. But things are slowy getting boring for me. It was great singing Backup with that Bug together. We flirt constantly , talk about crazy things and have fun. i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. Remember there arent only 12 kinds of people in this world !! I cry a lot, he knows but i won't show him my Tears. Any sign can date any sign; however, studying synastry can help pinpoint particular strengths and challenges in any partnership. I will say he has the best heart and loves with all of it. we count on a lot of texts and phone calls to keep the relationship going. Scorpio in love is intense, loving, and enveloping. He did not talk to me at all . I'm not guaranteeing it will change, though. I am completely shocked by all of the responses. The next morning he broke up with me via text. Tell him how you feel. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. i asked him if ive done anything wrong he said that hE is just busy at work but im getting paranoid coZ he is not acting usual.im getting crazy now.. :(. But if he is unhappy for any reason no matter how minute, he will withdraw and cheat on you--this is the stinger part. The Scorpio man is perfect in every way. P.S. Knowing that you are doing well makes Scorpio man miss you and want to come back. Both times we have broken up it was under false pretenses. There will be times when he's somewhere in between extremes, but it happens less frequently than with other signs. He does not show me his emotions , just during our fights says i care about you , i think about you , do not leave me & etc . Also do you think he will come back? He might do the slow fade out, meaning he stops initiating contact and when you reach out to him he takes hours or days to reply. I was in a Bad Relationship which has been pretty done soon or later and i thought it would be good to get out of the House and so see the Bugs Band. I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! Here are ten tell-tale signs that your Scorpio man's feelings around the relationship are changing: 1. I fee like when we fight pieces of me die so when i feel to much its like i push a Button inside me that protects me from further hurt and i become cold and distant. Have a Beautiful Daughter to the last of the 3 Loves. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. Some people may take that as being taken for granted, but I guess all I can say is, if that bothers you, talk about it. When a Scorpio feels something, their feelings Run deep and it seems really difficult for them to open up at first. I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. Is this how Scorpio men behave? I have always wanted True Love with a Woman. he ask my fav music, random question like kiss ot hug? After reading all the thread and many many others more I realized he is just like whatever you guys had described. Boyfriend lives in Arizona so communication is a big problem but we do get together on occasion and it is spectacular. I don't always know how to express my feelings and say things no matter how good at communicating I am. Scorpio is the most emotionally vulnerable sign, yet when they put up their defences, no one can damage them. We both have kids. The one I dealt with and still am uses coworkers to try to make me jealous but because I've seen him watching me and eavesdropping on me, I believe he's just looking for something on me. Not responding to my texts . It shows his deep love . Yes this one drives me Nuts, but i always know he is coming back around. I am a venus in scorpio and I can vouch for this. Scorpio men and intensity go hand-in-hand. I waited a day to respond, and just said "hi." Recently at work, a scorpio girl was chatting me up. I told him i just wanted to hang out with him like we agreed and I felt like he was being immature. I just don't have time to waste. A few years later, you accidentally step on the dog's tail. Now he's gone. The Scorpio man has a strong sense of self-esteem and is passionate about what he does. Scorpios along with being secretive, mysterious, sensuous and what not are very emotional. At this point, it's not about you understanding what he is angry or hurt about. If you do that, your scorp will notice with his freakish Empathic ways and it WILL make him want you way more! Amy DeMarco from Chicago on July 30, 2012: I dated a Scorpio for about six months and your description here is pretty accurate. Our Connection felt pretty strong like two Magnets something strange was happening. Tsurugi:I'm killed nee-san. Why would you wait around for this unstable twit to decide how he's going to yo yo again and how long you'll take it? I am at a vulnerable stage in my life right now. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. He is working independently, so he is working lots, busy with his Music Needs and is living one Hour away from me, living with somebody together. our conversation was okay and we decided to meet up after i finished my final examination. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. Hidden in the tiring and mundane is a chance to transform your prospects in a delightful way. If he disap p ears, it might be your instinct to blow up his phone with calls and text messages until he replies to you. Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. We were totally fine for a month, then he was at his friend's place and he was supposed to come to stay with me before going home but he got sick and he only texted me when he was already on the way home without even telling me he's thinking of not coming. I don't want him to think I'm a clingy nut, lol. He's confused. My Scorpio and I have been dating 3 1/2 months. He had helped me with some work stuff two weeks ago, but then told me how it stressed him out. They would tell me they'd see me and try to say hi but I wouldn't notice them. Prove you are serious about it by talking about long-term plans. He will make you feel like you are the only one for him, but this is only a ploy to make you do what he wants. He's amazing, caring, funny.. Just wonderful but when he is upset, he goes off the grid. From what it looks like if you bother a Scorpio and show them you care they get upset. I felt like it was out of nowhere. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. Then I get a long reply to my text were he doesn't see us going anywhere in a relationship because I can't communicate and I make funny faces and seem to take him as a joke and not seriously. The messages he sent me were slaughtering and he even threatened to put our rude conversations all over Facebook. We had a great connection, long amazing talks, which he would usually initiate, so we both agreed to take things slowly. THE MAKEUP THOUSAND-MAN CUT!A GREAT CRISIS!LINK YOUR HEART AND TURN EVERYTHING . These in-between times usually happen when he is trying to make an effort because he knows you probably don't understand his intensity or because he's genuinely curious about something you mentioned. 2. Take The Quiz: Is He Losing Interest? We were walking one day and he asked about my stress etc..I made the mistake of telling him how I got my feelings hurt about christmas, but was fine after he explained himself , I also explained that because of the stress I had caused him before I didnt want to share all the work stress I had had so I have been talking to a couple of other friends (guy friends) he shut down. I am a sadge sun otherwise and not in the least clingy or demanding. No matter how sad you are, be happy and confident in whatever you do and you will soon catch his attention. We're both 15, and we've both admitted we "like each other". If he completely stops communicating, he may have decided to cut all strings and end it. I really having trouble while dealing with him emotionally. This month holds celestial . Well..I never thought i would anyway. Because they know their emotions are so much stronger than others', they tolerate more than most people. I had my Life he had his own, all good. Him being 33 with no kids of his own I thought it wouldn't be a problem but apparently it was. Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. A Scorpio enjoys cinematic and classically romantic dates. Ignore him, he will retalia It tells me that he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn't have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. And he can be pretty obvious about it, too. Yes we take our time doesn't mean we don't care we just need assurance that we won't expose ourselves for being hurt in return. Is he testing me or just not interested all of a sudden? So I have made it a point to not bring that into "us" I also invited him to hangout with my friends for Thanksgiving and with family for Christmas. A Scorpio man typically keeps himself inundated with lots of things to do. Ummmm we are 50 and 42. I have been talking to a Scorpio man online for 4 years. However, remember that astrology should be used as a tool to better understand your partner and your unique dynamic, not to define the relationship and its outcome. Blame is unhealthy in any relationship. Stay calm Final Words When a Scorpio Man Ignores You Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden? Nothing serious well so he always said then one night about 3 weeks ago he messaged and asked if we could meet up I said yesthen I didn't hear from him so I assumed he had gotten busy so I just went to beddidn't think much of it. So when he's busy "in the zone"; he may not be thinking of you at that time. Ask him if I'm going to see him again said he will be busy for nest 5 weeks. Saw him playing maybe 3 Times in that Years. Im naturally submissive but im tired of questioning his feelings. Their hard outer shell seems tough and a bit dark, but it's all to protect the bleeding heart within. Travel. This is extremely accurate for my male best friend who is a Scorpio! Do you think he's just insecure about me leaving him first? I really dont know who the ideal sign for a Scorpio is, Well Said.a typical scorpio behavior. They'd compliment my fashion sense, my work ethic, and tell me I'm the most interesting person they've ever met. We have had a serious connection and am amazing attraction together. So the time comes to hang out a second time and he doesnt respond to me for like 4 hours after we agreed to meet and then started asking me if he could trust me/if I trust him. This gives Scorpio natives an innate push to seek personal growth on a soul level. And so afraid that if I don't get a text every day, then he has stopped caring for me. He could disappeared for about 3-4 days without even telling anything. I know I hurt him and I regret and I said that. If i do , i fear he may not trust me anymore. And I can do this over a protracted period of time such as few years. They are afraid of getting hurt by others, so they keep their thoughts and feelings private most of the time. Everysince i felt hurt and texted him about how i felt and its been 4 days now he has not replied. I hate arguments and confrontations and i always try my hardest for my partner to undertsand him better and not hurt his feelings but he is confrontational type and arguments exhaust me. I go through the same thing when i don't receive a text for 1 day cause it's just such an extreme change from the normal..also don't want to be needy, but sometime i feel like i need to have more self respect, it's not okay to be coldishback and forth with extreme wow he really really loves and wants me to feelings of I really don't know how he feels at all??? But I am telling you.. In astrology, there are several complex methods of determining compatibility beyond sun signs. but what actually is he doing? Please have a spare time to help someone in confusion with scorp man.. be delighted to know some insights.. thank you very much.. Just want to ask for an honest advise. I need Dr. But after a while i realized he loves me , cares about me , listens to me , & my words had lots of effect on him ! when he shuts down on me and not text me after all I do for him it hurts my feelings and I do talk to him about it but he does not let me know what is going on the reason why he does this. 10. If he loves you, he will be asking a lot of questions about everything that has something to do with you. Here's what . I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. Do not Act Desperate and Clingy. i read here the Scorpio guy said "Also of pushing someone away as fear rejection so will self sabotage in order to control outcome, which sadly always ends in pain." I lost my mind. And then. Help!! Sagittarius woman with Scorpio man on May 25, 2018: We met and he was proposing after 2 weeks asking me if I would meet his family and friends - I have not had good experiences in love and was a little cautious but eventually his attention, compassion, patience and wonderful personality won me over. The Venus/Jupiter link encourages you to look again at an old situation. Even sexual relationship is outstanding but emotionally not. I've been dating a new Scorpio for 3 months now that I fell in love with almost right away. For the second time now he is giving me the silent treatment. Sorry if sounds weird just guessing lol. So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. When a Scorpio Male Hurts You Purposely #1: He doesn't want to meet people close to you #2: He refuses to hang out with you #3: He talks about sex frequently #4: He rarely opens up #5: He disappears out of the blue The Bottom Line Terms: When a Scorpio Male Hurts You Purposely #1: He doesn't want to meet people close to you An Aquarius man can be very charming, but don't be fooled by his act. I have deleted him now, I just want to know why do they disappear instead of fixing the problem when apparently its his fault that he messed up by going on date with someone else. The Bug always tells me his Week Plans, work work work, shows up when promised at my Place always needs to go back home to his Dog. Me and Scorpio make broke up after being together for 2 years. I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. He seldom wallows in envy or self-pity, and he doesn't happen to think that life owes him a single farthing. He talked to my Mom and she adored him. I have since been on a roller coaster ride and now haven't gotten a text or call for 6 weeks. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters. Anyway, we decided to meet up but it didn't end well; I arrived at our meeting place and he wasn't there so I texted him, but he said that I wasn't there so he went to hang out with a friend. If you aren't sure about him, don't put up with his games. I really love him and I want to try again where I dont hurt him anymore. Karthik Kashyap from India on July 17, 2012: KrisNick09: I think I may be in situation 3. At first, I was like omg what did I do wrong and then scorp man let it be known that everything is fine. And wish I could roll more mid field and not the spikes up and down constantly is really tiring. I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. Being in Love is wonderful. Show her you are passionate and not superficial in your attitude. And our conversation end with quarrel. Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. I bet you he will not like it very much and now he knows how you feel. Be successful . She may give you a clear sign right away that she likes you and you are the perfect man, and may not look directly at you when you are together. He wrote back and we exchanged a few messages after that, but I am just so confused as to what is going on in that head of his. Lastly, no one can love a person who doesnt truly love themselves , and if you truly love yourself you will know how and on whom to spend your precious hours, reserve your emotions to your girlfriends , get to know a boy for who he really is before pouring your feelings out to him and feeling vulnerable. He will not tell me what is wrong. I was almost ready to give up on him until I read this article. There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. 1. What does he want from me How would I knw he is lying to me(scorpio) he said he is not over his ex and need time to deal with his feelings. I'm dealing with a Scorpio who says he loves me after 2 weeks of knowing him and has literally poured out his heart to me to only stop telling me these things weeks later. Nothing. While your crush might be a Scorpio sun, his personality might be influenced by his rising, moon, and Venus signs as well. Scorpios have multiple stages of evolution (Scorpion, snake, wolf and Phoenix), and our mindset and how we carry ourselves is significantly different in each stage. I couldn't understand this guy for the life of me but I was really falling for him because of it. Do I give him space and let him sort it out? I really wish he would just stop leading me on, wowso helpful to hear all the amazing similaritiesi don't know if 1-5?? My scorpio man sais he adores me etc I know he likes me very much a dis genuine but then he desapears for a few days then he comes back. i am with a scorpio boy , it's 13 months that we are with each other , yes i agree with all , he is so different with all , at first he flirted alot , after few month i fell in love with him & i told him & during the time this feel got more & more . He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. Sometime i feel not to have a same sign mate. He feels burned or embarrassed and has withdrawn to nurse his wounds. The following are key pillars of any strong relationship, but these may need some extra attention when dating a Scorpio. Remember, your partner's sun sign is never an excuse for abusive behavior. Mine came back after 5 years. Wish we will be together soon. :). Also of pushing someone away as fear rejection so will self sabotage in order to control outcome, which sadly always ends in pain. Be strong and dont let him control you. I don't think he respects me. Should I carry on asking him to talk to me or move on . 1. This is so true! So, I got so pissed because I was very hurt, thinking he didn't care about me and my feelings to let me know and make sure I'm ok. Of course I understand he was sick and needed to take care of himself but my problem was that he didn't tell me until he was already leaving. How could he just not think of me at all for 3 weeks, and then randomly text me like nothing was wrong?! Should i stay or should i go. NEVER believe what people tell you, let them show you. What do I do with this friendship???!:((. Sometimes a hug and affection is of more value than sexual relations. I understand it to a Point. Scorpio intuits the sensitivity behind the facade and becomes intrigued. it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. He Keeps Secrets From You Scorpios are secretive. Is this a characteristic or is he playing games with me :(. Well not all the things they say about scorpio men are accurate. But when they do finally lash out, they do so in brilliant form. He has this Sunshine Smile, this happy Puppy Look. "Not only him, most of the Indians don't take tip for doing such thing, in fact we don't feel it's so big help, we grow up with . Like all water signs, Scorpio men love hard and forever, and feel things intensely. Mind you, it will not be a vacation by the sea. I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. He's quite private though. Scorpio men are born between October 23 and November 21. We have flirted on and off throughout the last few years but never anything serious because we both have been in relationships. People that get deep into head games need emotional control over someone. In other words, if you can't tell which of the first four reasons is the reason he has withdrawn, then you really don't know each other well enough for him to play mind games and expect you to sort it out. Also, because he clams up, he'll never feel enough guilt to tell you that he's cheating on you. It seems his actions of disappearing whenever and to wherever have caused your self esteem to diminish. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice He did special prayers and used his power Within 7 days my husband called me and he said he was sorry for all the emotional pains he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily and our child is happy too. 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